What are some abilities that are really helpful in a bg? Currently I am finding that intimidation and oblivion shield are incredible
Swap, Nexus Aura, Designate: Flagbearer, Weaken Spells, Phase Shift (0 AP gain flying), Battledrum, True Nature.
Very true, it seems that relocation abilities are very popular (understandably so) but distract will certainly throw a wrench in that
Depends on what you're playing, whatever abilities will help push your strengths will differ with every BG.