You seem confused, xxLordQxx merely asked IF you were gay. While calling him lord QQ could be considered both defamatory and likely to offend. Clear breaches of Forum Law as you put it. Deep down if your truly honest I think you want your ass ... Moderated
And you are? Anyway, this isn't the place to discuss code of conduct. If I deem the situation necessary to step in, I will. There's no need to minimod each other.