a couple days ago i told my wife that even if we are very different and have a lot of discussions, i cannot even imagine not being together, and she said its the same for her. and before marriage we have been dating 4 years at 11000km distance meeting 3 _4 times a year. i think love its something like that. id doesnt matter how far you are, how much you argue, etc. in the end, being together seems the most natural thing. of course it isnt always happy, thats not love, its being on drugs sometimes i want to kill her. but its normal, as we are two young adults with strong opinions. the point is that the discussions never ends up breaking us apart, they instead make us stronger and closer.