Self Identification - where does one draw the line?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by Baskitkase, May 4, 2016.

  1. Baskitkase

    Baskitkase Forum Royalty

    Seems to be the hottest topic right now; who gets to use which bathroom. Someone self-identifies as a female, when they were born a man, should/should not be able to use the womens bathroom etc etc.

    http://www.mediaite.com/online/meet-the-52-year-old-father-who-identifies-a-6-year-old-girl/

    Where's the line? Is there one? No matter what someone dreams up, are we supposed to accept it and support it?

    Here's my opinion: You can do whatever you want, but as soon as your self-identification presents a situation in which others could be harmed in any way, you've crossed the line.
     
  2. Atherhog

    Atherhog I need me some PIE!

    For me, it's pretty simple. On new builds make uni-sex bathrooms, nobody loses.

    Also, who get harmed if a man who identifies as a woman goes to a women's bathroom? It's all cubicles and I don't think there have been any instances of attacks or anything.

    It's one of those issues that seems important, but in reality, where is the danger?
     
  3. Baskitkase

    Baskitkase Forum Royalty

    You're focusing on the first line, I'm saying thats where we are. But how far beyond that (unisex bathrooms or forcing others to comply with mix genders in single gender bathrooms) will we go?

    The fella identifies as a 6 year old girl. Does he drive or work? Both of those would be illegal, wouldn't they?

    Are we going to say that his self-identification is silly? If we do that, then why isn't all self-identification silly?

    There-in lies my question, wheres the line?
     
  4. Sokolov

    Sokolov The One True Cactuar Octopi

    The question for me is really... who is being harmed?

    Much of the debate regarding the bathroom specifically is "perverts" and "pedophiles" but this doesn't really make sense as predators of this type aren't sitting around right now going, "damn, I can't go into the little girl's bathroom because I am a man, if only there was a way I could do so and claim I was a little girl..."

    Because the fact is... whether or not he is "allowed" in that bathroom, the act of molesting or assaulting someone is ALREADY illegal - THAT's the real crime. If he goes in, uses the bathroom and does nothing out of the ordinary - who is being harmed by that?

    If people want to identity as something different than their biology... I don't know that there is a specific line we can draw, just as I wouldn't want to draw a line as to what religion people can follow - no matter how absurd I personally feel those beliefs might be.

    For me, this is similar to the gun control debate. I don't personally want a gun, but as long as guns are being kept and utilized in a safe manner (both for personal safety and for societal safety), I can't raise a true objection to someone else wanting to own a gun. Yes, guns COULD harm people, but the act of killing and assaulting with the gun is ALREADY illegal. As gun rights people would suggest: It seems suspect to outlaw owning a gun because of potential harm or bad people.(My problem with current gun laws is how easily they can be transferred, and how easily some can obtain guns, when I feel they shouldn't be, such as those who suffer from severe mental illness, etc.)

    Of course, if people are actually being harmed, then we have something to discuss. This was the case with second hand smoke - as much as we want to allow for personal freedom in choosing to smoke, the fact was that it's difficult for a smoker not to influence those around him by the act of smoking.

    So in this case, we circle back to the question of - in regards to self identification among law abiding individuals, who is being harmed and why?
     
  5. Baskitkase

    Baskitkase Forum Royalty

    Cool example. As we've come to learn and recognize the effects of second hand smoke we reduced the places one can smoke almost to the point of "you can smoke only around other smokers or where your smoke has very little chance of being encountered by a non smoker".

    Maybe we'll have to go down this road as far as we did with smoking, and we'll need the concrete evidence similar to lung cancer in non smokers.
     
  6. Baskitkase

    Baskitkase Forum Royalty

    How do you think this man's children would respond? Is harm only physical?
     
  7. Sokolov

    Sokolov The One True Cactuar Octopi

    This specific case is bit of an extreme outlier so it's hard to speak on it specifically. I am not even sure it's a valid example, as he seems to just randomly choose to be X or Y on a whim.

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    In general, I think people's reactions would largely depend on their upbringing and the regional culture.

    In Europe, for example, nudity and unisex bathrooms are much more common - and if you grow up with these ideas as more normalized, it wouldn't seem as big a deal.

    It's similar to homosexuality - this was an extremely taboo thing until quite recently, and many families and relationships were probably damaged due to it. How did the parents feel when their son came out as gay? Were they harmed emotionally? Should he not be allowed to identify as gay? These are all similar questions.

    We all have various things with which we are uncomfortable, or potentially cause us some kind of trauma. Some people have their PTSD triggered by barred windows, or ceiling fans. Others have issues with large dogs, or weapons. The potential for emotion harm is something that's difficult to use as a bar.

    At the same time, we make exceptions for intent all the time - such as with the case of smoking - the smoker has no INTENT to harm anywhere, but we make laws around it anyway. So it's bit of a quagmire.

    At the end of the day, I am not sure if there's a better solution than the one humans have always done... things are not accepted until they are (such as interracial relationships) or things are accepted until they are not (such as slavery). I won't always agree with the general population, but I think as a member of society I have to be open to the idea that society at large isn't always going to reflect my personal beliefs. I may be biased, but I don't think my personal bias should dictate how things are for everyone.
     
  8. Sokolov

    Sokolov The One True Cactuar Octopi

    Can you expand on this? Do you think that potential emotional harm (not directly illegal acts) count?

    What is considered "could be harmed in any way" to you? If you could also relate it to gun control I'd also be interested in how your views differ or remain the same in that context and why.
     
  9. Sokolov

    Sokolov The One True Cactuar Octopi

    This is actually fairly interesting. Does his self-identification in this case have LEGAL ramifications for his age? Can someone just claim to be 12 and not be tried as an adult even though they are 35?

    What about sports? Can a man "identify" as a woman and compete against biological women?
     
  10. Geressen

    Geressen Forum Royalty

    this debate is silly and the way you try to compare it to age or tie perverts into it is creepy.

    forcing people who self identify as female to live as a male or vice versa leads to higher suicide rates. allowing them to live as their identity helps their mental health.
    someone who has altered their body to resemble their identity may be attacked more easily when they enter a toilet that is intended for a gender they no longer resemble.
    someone who has the mental capacity of a 6 year old is generally not allowed to do things like drive.

    it is that simple.
     
  11. ssez

    ssez I need me some PIE!

    Self Identifying to me makes someone pretty close to insane.

    Saying youre a cow when youre human is crazy, saying youre a woman when youre a man is crazy.

    On a simple one like gender, XX XY problem solved, its real easy to find out what gender you are, its science.

    Jenner says she is a woman, now ask his/her chromosomes.

    Will coroner reports now have to list the self identifying persons gender as what they wanted ?

    People can now what identify as a different race ? sure why not since chromosomes dont matter to gender anymore im sure skin color etc doesn't either.

    Now in a scientific study that is studying women, can men who identify as women now take part in study ? and why not ? if you don't let them you are discriminating. (we found 10 out of 100 women now have balls!)

    Will the self identifying persons feelings be hurt when they are told by scientists that they cant take part in a study on womens cancer because they are in fact a man ? those damn bigoted scientists must hate them now too.

    I could go on and on with examples of how encouraging people to self identify is stupid and what problems its going to cause when that person living a fantasy is confronted with cold hard science.
     
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  12. Atherhog

    Atherhog I need me some PIE!

    Two points, is an albino African still African?
    Are gender and sex the same thing? Does gender have a neurological root, I think it does. Thus, gender and sex wouldn't need to be the same thing.
     
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  13. Geressen

    Geressen Forum Royalty

    @Atherhog ; gender, sex, and sexuality are not the same, but @ssez doesn't self identify as anything so we can ignore him.
     
  14. ssez

    ssez I need me some PIE!


    Historically it was used as male female, its only recent that they started to change the standard use of the word, its history and usage was speaking of someones sex. Can find hundreds of years worth of books etc using it as such including scientific documentation.

    An albino African would still be African but would not be "White" again science can prove that.

    Part of an article below and his credentials after.

    "Dr. Joseph Berger has issued a statement saying that from a medical and scientific perspective there is no such thing as a "transgendered" person, and that terms such as “gender expression” and “gender identity" used in the bill are at the very least ambiguous, and are more an emotional appeal than a statement of scientific fact.

    Berger, who is a consulting psychiatrist in Toronto and whose list of credentials establishes him as an expert in the field of mental illness, stated that people who identify themselves as "transgendered" are mentally ill or simply unhappy, and pointed out that hormone therapy and surgery are not appropriate treatments for psychosis or unhappiness.

    "From a scientific perspective, let me clarify what ‘transgendered’ actually means," Dr. Berger said, adding, "I am speaking now about the scientific perspective – and not any political lobbying position that may be proposed by any group, medical or non-medical."

    "‘Transgendered’ are people who claim that they really are or wish to be people of the sex opposite to which they were born, or to which their chromosomal configuration attests," Dr. Berger stated.

    "Some times, some of these people have claimed that they are ‘a woman trapped in a man’s body’ or alternatively ‘a man trapped in a woman’s body’."

    "The medical treatment of delusions, psychosis or emotional happiness is not surgery," Dr. Berger stated.

    "On the other hand," Dr. Berger continued, "if these people are asked to clarify exactly what they believe, that is to say do they truly believe whichever of those above propositions applies to them and they say ‘no’, then they know that such a proposition is not true, but that they ‘feel’ it, then what we are talking about scientifically, is just unhappiness, and that unhappiness is being accompanied by a wish – that leads some people into taking hormones that predominate in the other sex, and even having cosmetic surgery designed to make them ‘appear’ as if they are a person of the opposite sex."

    He explained that cosmetic surgery will not change the chromosomes of a human being in that it will not make a man become a woman, capable of menstruating, ovulating, and having children, nor will it make a woman into a man, capable of generating sperm that can unite with an egg or ovum from a woman and fertilize that egg to produce a human child."


    Dr. Berger is certified as a specialist in Psychiatry by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada and by the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology, and is an elected Distinguished Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association. He is also a past Chairman of the Toronto district of the Ontario Medical Association and past President of the Ontario branch of the American Psychiatric Association.

    Berger has been an Examiner in Psychiatry for the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology for twenty five years, has taught as Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Toronto, and is the author of many published papers on different aspects of Diagnosis and Independent Psychiatric Assessments, as well as author of the book “The Independent Medical Examination in Psychiatry” published by Butterworth/Lexis-Nexis.
     
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  15. Atherhog

    Atherhog I need me some PIE!

    you insinuated that skin colour did matter with race, now you say it doesn't. Here's a fact, there is more genetic diversity between two African people than between a English person and a Chinese person. So, how do we classify race?

    There are many interesting neurology papers out there which show a neurological cause to feelings of transgender. Not that they are mentally ill, rather that certain areas of their brains respond in the same way as the opposite sex.

    The reality is that are old definitions are not fit for purpose and our knowledge has moved on.
     
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  16. ssez

    ssez I need me some PIE!


    I was basically saying if someone can self identify as female why couldn't a person self identify as a different race ? then on government/college/whatever forms etc you can select whatever race you want since you self identify as such, just like gender.

    Yes there are many nuerological papers written on it in fact in my post was from

    "Berger has been an Examiner in Psychiatry for the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology for twenty five years"

    So the examiner in psychiatry for the American board of psychiatry and NEUROLOGY said basically all the gender stuff is BS so yea your right great stuff out there on neurology.

    I will side with his opinion over yours saying the definition of gender has changed, no offense lol
     
    Last edited: May 4, 2016
  17. ssez

    ssez I need me some PIE!

    I know of some cases where it has happened. One is a transgender MMA fighter Fallon Fox who was XX but allowed to compete with XY. The Nevada athletic commission licensed "her" to fight as a woman. Interesting read if you have not seen it before and second link has more thoughts about it.

    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/t...-female-opponent-concussion-breaks-her-eye-so

    http://www.inquisitr.com/2161284/fallon-fox-transgender-mma-fighters-be-allowed-to-fight/
     
  18. Atherhog

    Atherhog I need me some PIE!

    Which would be fair, but it's not my opinion. I mean that there are peer reviewed scientific papers which claim the opposite of what your dude claims. I can link the published papers for you.

    is there a peer reviewed paper linked with your guys opinion, or is it simply his opinion?
     
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  19. Geressen

    Geressen Forum Royalty

    if someone is on an american board of something you can be sure they are somehow wrong about something, just look at the texas board of education or the comitee on space, science, and technology.
     
  20. Atherhog

    Atherhog I need me some PIE!

    I just looked him up properly. He isn't an expert in this field at all, he's just mouthing off.

    Dr. Joseph Berger simply presents his opinion on the subject. There are many people who have done rigorous scientific work that say he's talking nonsense - actually, the vast majority.

    But hey, why let sound science get in the way of fear and bigotry.
     
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